Sunday, October 6, 2019

Advice from a Grey Beard on Attending a Convention

Updated 7/16/2021





Attending a Convention 
                                  Running Games at a Convention  
                                                                         Volunteering at a convention


Over the years I have been to numerous conventions and gatherings... I have always managed to make the most from being at Conventions...

I am going to break this up into a few different parts because the experience of Attending a Convention is vastly different than running games or organizing conventions

I have done online conventions as well and nothing compares to attending in person. 



The Following rules apply to every situation


  1. SHOWER EVERYDAY of the CON, more than once if needed
  2. USE DEODORANT
  3. Carry Spare T-Shirt, Deodorant and a travel Towel... Do a quick wipe and dry as needed and change the shirt
  4. Do not use any cologne, chances are you do not know how to apply it and someone next to you will get  NAUSEOUS 
  5. HAND SANITIZER - become very familiar with this, do not trust that others will be diligent 
  6. AVOID ANY KIND OF BODY SPRAY, including Body Washes and Soaps with Scent

      7.   IF YOU ARE SICK, STAY HOME... 
             Even a mild cold or illness can become severe with many people
               If you think you may be getting sick, wear a Surgical mask...  




               THINK of the people around you,
               we all put out money to attend, and sometimes things just do not work out


I also recommend starting a Immune booster 5-7 days before any convention... I have done Airborne and Emergen-C







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Managing your Stuff...

Here is what I found that works great, buy a rolling laptop bag and get a backpack with a Luggage strap or mount










The best part is you do not have to carry anything or watch how you turn around... 

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Attending a Convention 


Attending is probably the most stress free way to go. All you have to do is:

Buy Tickets:  Check
Clear the date:  Check
Show Up: Check

Now if it is a gaming (RPG, Tabletop or Console) convention, you will need to register for games before you go, and you have to know your logistics as to where the games are so that you can try to avoid running from one end of the con to another to make your games

1.     Try to avoid back to back games that are not within 5           minutes of each other
2.     Try to avoid carrying too many things with you
3.     As player, I try to have: 
a.      Dice 
b.     A Rule book if needed
c.      Spare Character sheets or premade ones 

4.     Some General items to have should be       
a.      Tissues or napkins    
b.     Gum, cough drops, or candy
c.      Hand Sanitize
d.     Drink
e.    Portable chargers, more than one for redundancy





Traveling to and From a Convention, (staying on Site)
          
This takes a little planning.. but I have found the following to be invaluable

A: Bring a case of water with you per person

B: Twice as many shirts as you think you will need
C: Protein bars, carry with you, this will fill you and keep you going
D: Learn what the stores are in the area you are going to be at
         Bakery, Liquor Store, Walmart, Target... Just in case
E: plan on what you bring home (I always bring a case for Posters)


Updated 12/17/19
Part 1A - STAYING OFF SITE

Ok, no room at the Con Site, No Problem you just have to plan a bit.

As a Player, you can take the shuttle, may have a little wait, but you won't have to worry about Parking, just make sure you get over to the con about 40 minutes before your event in case of a wait on the shuttle. 

As a Game Master, I recommend you do not unpack your gaming stuff if you drove in, leave it in the Trunk or the back of the SUV. Organize what you need by day and game. That way it will be quick, I used 2 containers, one for books and one for your adventures. This allows you to get to your car and change out games / Dice / storage during the day

Drive over before 8:00 AM in order to get any Parking in the best lot. 

If you are playing in any games that end after Midnight, you will not be able to get a shuttle - Check to see when the Con's Shuttle Service Ends. 

Merchant Room - 












When you attend, it is best to have an idea of what you are spending and stay within a budget.
I try to think of what I might spend money on and then bring extra.
What I do look for at a con is something a bit different, so I look at the vendors and if I do not have it in my budget, I get their card and find out where I can see them next or order from them.

Be prepared for an unexpected purchase when you go. For Example, I had planned on playing in one game, talked my way into another game, enjoyed that game so much that I bought the rule book immediately after the game... shown below

Also bring items for Signatures if their are VIP at the con, Most RPG VIPs will sign anything for FREE, others such as at Comic cons, charge fees for Signatures and Pictures.

Signed By Margaret Weis, who produced the game system and played in the game I was in. 

PART 5 - Preplan and Manage Expectations

What I mean is, plan who you want to meet, what you want to have signed, and go in managing your expectations. 

My First GaryCon (8) was amazing, up until Saturday, That day really fell apart for me and only one game worked out. I was dreadfully in a subpar mood Saturday night.

My Next GC (10) was amazing, I went in with managed expectations, got into every game I wanted to and it exceeded what I had hoped for.  I was the Luckiest guy at GC10

Now I go with a list of things I want to get done and everything else is bonus

My List from GaryCon 11
1        Margaret Weis signature on latest book
2        Steve Jackson to sign my book and vinyl poster
3        Get a Signature for my Foster daughter From Joe Manganiello
4        Elmore print  - or Chromatic Kingdom poster print
5        Promote Bodhana
6        See as many friends as possible
Lets just say, I completed 1, 2, 3, 4 and lots of 6 by midday Thursday. 
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COMIC CONS
Comic Cons are a world by themselves, Utterly overpriced, over attended and very crowded.

For some of the bigger Comic Cons, you must get tickets in advance because the sell out (Hence the price gauging)  I attend very few of these simply because once you pay the $100 person, then you have to buy Autographs and Autograph packages.  Many of them have become just MONEY GRABS, sign and move on, no chat, no pics unless you have a Pic ticket...

If you can find a smaller one, with a one day ticket available for under $50, then go if you can...

You can find value at Comic Shows and Cons and sometimes, your favorite actor is just a few miles away

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Running Games at a Convention


Running game adds a whole new level to the con experience:  People are signing up to play in your games and want a really cool experience.  Plus you are giving back to the CON...

I started running games at cons because I only trust a few people to run games for me as a player.
it was my way to attend and have fun. Almost all CONS will waive the registration fee for the con. and when I first started attending, CONS sold games for 3 dollars and bought back the ticket from the Dungeon Master for 1 dollar.. I ran Lots of games at those CONS and spent a majority of my dollars in the dealer room.. mostly on dice and figures





Typical times for playing are: 
  • 2 Hours (Mini Slot)
  • 4 Hours (the typical amount of time)
  • 8 Hours (Double Slot)
I prefer 4 hour slots because I can run more games, typically, I do 2-4 games a day - 8 AM, 12 PM, 4 PM and 8 PM... sometimes a 12 AM.. .

Your Responsibilities as a DM / GM / Storyteller / Animator / Ombudsman
  • Be on time
  • Be organized
  • Bring Extra Pencils
  • Bring Extra Dice
  • Bring Additional Characters
  • Bring Character Sheets
  • Bring note pads
I try to plan as if someone is walking by and at the last moment decides to play. I do not lend dice easily but I keep 3 sets with me that are expendable and losing them is no issue (You will lose dice and gain dice at conventions if you run games, it just happens)

TABLE ORGANIZATION
I do not bring minis or terrain or any complicated props. I keep my footprint on the table as small as possible, most of the time, I never use a screen. I do keep my screen handy for charts and such if needed. I use a fully customizable 4 panel screen



This is my AD&D custom charts setup


In Addition, I always try to do the following:
  • Have water and Ice Tea available at the table
  • Napkins, always needed
  • Gum or mints or packets of skittles
I find that if the players are on your side from the beginning, they will accept anything you throw at them or do to them. If I am running a Role Playing intense game, then I usually reserve killing for a bone headed move... 

I have no qualms about killing players, I prefer providing a tough challenge where they may be killed...

During the Game
  • Know the Material !!!
  • Be Organized
  • Be Energized
  • Dig deep, be unique
  • Don't be afraid to try it
  • Don't Dream It, BE IT !!!!!
The more you bring the game to life, the better your players will respond. I use lots of different vocals and hand gestures... many people can attest to my horrible Jamaican accent and my equally well done other accents... 

I have all my notes ready to go and it is a simple tear of a centimeter to hand it over...

Game flow is important, anything that stops the action or pauses for too long is not helping the players to enjoy the game

My goal has always been to have the most talked about game at the convention, if they are talking about it and people are standing around watching the show.. then I have done it.
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Volunteering at a convention

This is another way to enjoy the show without having to pay... I am horrible at this option.. Somehow most cons do not like the large glass of Jack and Coke I like to have while volunteering.. (hey, it's my playtime also) 



My favorite was working the Registration table Friday afternoon, first day of the con, we arrived early and unpacked the booze.. made a large stiff drink and went to the table, we checked people in and sold game tickets... 80% of the crowd knew me and I entertained them as we went about everything... 


Nowadays, you just cannot do things like that... but I implore you to use this option to save a few bucks for the Dealer room

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Demoing board games at Cons

This is a great option, I got a free pass to Pax Unplugged in 2018 and the following package for GenCon 2018

Hotel room next to the Convention center (4 people) 
Full Exhibitor pass 
Lunch money
8 games from the company I demo for
6 games from another demo I picked up
I ended up spending about 125 out of my pocket and 50 was for parking

Demoing and running games has given me a change to attend more cons and requests to demo other places and save hundreds if not, thousands, of dollars

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LINKS TO CONS AND EVENT GUIDES..
These are Cons I run games at, or attend with the exception of GenCon.. I only included that by default of my own doing

One of the better listings for Conventions and Con management software


EVENTBRITE
A lot of Cons register themselves using this tool making it easier to find all the information you need









Con for Old school gaming and new games, inspired to Celebrate the life well played - Gary E. Gygay, Co-Creator of Dungeons and Dragons




http://www.gencon.com/
Occurs Every August, massive RPG Gaming convention, the largest in the world, 2018 will be the 51st year



Friday, August 30, 2019

BOOKS, Books, BOOKS


Here are some highly recommended reading materials. 


When I started with gaming and truly reading, there were only a few ways to figure out what to read. 

The Local Bookstores
Word of Mouth
Reviews in Dragon Magazine
Sheer dumb luck




When looking for new settings, I tend to model them partially after things I have read in this book, It may be one idea or a complete island. It has a wealth of information in here. An although I have included this in my Gaming Materials List, I have included it here also

http://gmbgaming.blogspot.com/2016/01/grm-gaming-reference-materials.html



Now to the Authors who I own multiple books from

Larry Niven:  

http://www.larryniven.net/

I will read almost anything he has written, I love hard Scifi and his books are always fascinating






Dream Park was my introduction to his work, from there I started to read as many of his novels that I could. I am currently at 23 novels read including a few Ringworld Novels












Margaret Weis:

https://margaretweis.com/

Everyone knows that I adore Margaret. I love her writing and I will try every year to play in the Firefly game with her.  Her latest series is very good. 



And of course my First exposure to Margaret was Dragonlance 





Anne McAffrey:


http://pernhome.com/aim/


Back in Middle school, I came across these in the local Waldenbooks, back then we had to go to the bookstore and actually look through the books to find something that appealed to us. 

Literally anything set in Pern is a good book and I have read over half a dozen. 




Craig Martelle:


https://craigmartelle.com/

In 2018, I wanted to play in a game at GaryCon but could not get it in my schedule (even though my game was cancelled that very morning) Craig wrote the book about that game over the weekend. The following year (having not read the book) I was able to play in it. 




I have read a few of his books now and have several on my ipad (Kindle app) to read. I highly recommend his books and his face book to provide help to self publishing authors. Craig and few others have inspired me to force myself to become a writer and not just a creative mind 

https://www.facebook.com/groups/20Booksto50k/





Bill O'Reilly 

https://www.billoreilly.com/books

I love books about History, real history. Not books by people who produce slanted views on history. Lots of history is filled with brutal conflicts and real issues. 

I may not agree with a portion of his commentary, but as a History Writer, I really enjoy reading his books. If you do not come away with a greater appreciation of history after reading his books, I feel sorry for you. 





Sir Arthur C Clarke

https://www.clarkefoundation.org/

I very much enjoyed these books, I think these were the only 3 I read from him. 




Joel Rosenberg 
                    The Guardians of the Flame series








Individual Books and series:






I enjoyed these stories and the madness that spawned a ton of interest in his Old Gods















 I always enjoy a crazed perspective and both of these books are amazing


My wife introduced me to this and this was a solid read with some good ideas


















I have read lots of amazing books books and I encourage people to read as much as possible. My children are voracious readers and enjoy so many books. 




















Friday, August 23, 2019

To Kickstarter I shall go !!!

As part of my Professional Dungeon Master Brand, GMB Gaming, I will be putting together a Kickstarter in the next year. 

The Kickstarter will be called


CON/GAMES 
(Convention ready adventures for multi systems)


This will feature nearly every game that I have written for every Gaming Convention I have attended




First, I want to have all the writing completed

Second, I want the format and content to be completed

basically, I just want to use the Kickstarter to pay for additional Art, Editing and layout

Certain games cannot be included unless I get permission or rights and I will explore that before it posts




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"The Best of the Best"
AAAAHHHH      
Entrance to Classari               
The Master Stroke     

"The Blug Chronicles"
So you think you have an Attitude !!!      
So you think you have an Attitude, TOO !!!

"Maiden Series"
The Maidens of the Desert

The Maidens of the Forest


"How TO"

The Greg Barry Invitational Drunken Dungeon Master Challenge


I will also need to seek permission to use these
PizzaToon / A Toon Love Story                                 
Daytoona Beach Party Bingo Blast            
Foo-Fuu Toon… Catch that Bird  


Not sure if these will be included as I have no rights to the original material
Hour of the Wolf -Mythus, Dangerous Journeys
PODW, Lost Episode
The Quest for the Gate Between Worlds      
Firefly, Season 2, Episode 1 and 2


Some Stretch goals may include other ones that I have written but were not quite good enough or some of my notes

and then if this works outs, My World  - PAK ZAROTH may come to life in a future Kickstarter




Friday, July 26, 2019

Am I doing it right ? Tips to be a BETTER PLAYER

I write from 40 years of experience and Convention gaming. I provide practical advice that I have employed and taught. 


I will gladly tell you that I am much better player than a Dungeon or Game Master. 






IN fact, I think so highly of my Dungeon Master skills that I tend not to play in games systems that I run. You will rarely catch me as a player in AD&D. When I do play, I tend to be a Cleric because that is the support role. I have a big personality and if I play a Fighter, Magic User, Thief; I have a tendency to take over the leadership roll and possibly the game

I also have a trust issue when I play, The game must have good pacing, not long gaps and the GM must be competent.  



That said, I have gamed with a few game masters at GaryCon and I have guided numerous Game Masters over the years on how to be better. I will join a game if it looks interesting or if I am a huge fan of someone in (or running) the game. I try to game with Margaret Weis at every GaryCon I go to, I adore her. 





I also try to play in Heidi Gygax game at GaryCon. 

I do not Speak/ Subscribe/ Condone Social Justice issues, if you may be set off by crude comments, or any triggers, please find another hobby. I do not offer a safe space. 

That being said, I have been lucky that I have never had any complaints about my games or about me not following any rules of Political correctness.  

Everyone is welcome at my tables so long as you are not an asshole / tank the game. 
I do not care what your preferences are, your color, gender, your disorders..  Throw out any "Social Contracts " and any players that cannot handle being offended, they will Fuck up your game. 

Stay away from Political Talk at the Gaming table unless you are talking about IN GAME Politics

Current Events outside of the game are usually off limits also

There is no such thing as doing it right,  everyone has a different style that they care comfortable with

So, with that all in mind, I present;

Tips to Make YOU a Better RPG Player



READ:
This is the top skill, read adventure books, SciFi books, anything with stories and characters

Watch:
Watch all sorts of movies, pick up on the character traits and speech patterns

Learn your Game

  1. Go through the Role-playing manuals and learn what you need to roll for what. 
  2. Make sure you know your Race and Class Traits, even if you do not follow all of them. 
  3. Come to the game with a preplanned idea of what you are doing



ROLE play vs ROLL play

So, this was the situation; Friend was playing in D&D 4.0 (?) game at a con. he first thing the players needed to do was meetup at tavern, He walked in and said "I am looking for my friends" The DM made him roll a die to see if he could find them, He failed the roll and was unable to see his friends. He had to leave the tavern. This is Roll playing

If you can do things without having to depend on a Die roll, like convincing someone that that people are coming down another corridor or that there is a monster somewhere else... 

EXAMPLE 1
One of the best things I have done recently was to convince a Robot to let me pass with an off the cuff speech, No die roll, no skill check, I simply used a logical Knowledge of Firefly... 

here is the narrative

===============================================(I was playing Inarra in a Firefly RPG game)
So I decided that I was going to take the lead on this one and go ahead and bring Kaylie

I escorted Kaylee down to the engineering room I knew there'd be some trouble on the way so I was prepared for this and then Dan asked  “hey are you going to take a gun” so I thought for a moment I said “I'll take a gun but I'm never going to use it” I could see he was a little bit miffed about that

As we approach the robots I said “I am a Companion of House Madrassa, I was requested to be here by the captain” so the robot said that does not compute and I said “I am clearly Alliance and therefore you must let me pass as I have authorization to be here”  “And this is my lady” (Pointing to Kaylie)

With that Dan did not see that coming so I completely tossed a new wrinkle into the into the game. After rolling a few times, He allowed me to enter and complete our task
(I was voted best Player in the Game)
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EXAMPLE 2 (5E)

We were going room to room in a keep and there were squatters in the building. I was trying to clear them out, the first room I go into, I ask any people in here.. The DM has me ROLL perception, I succeed and see three people who I kick out of the keep

The next room I go in I ask if there are any people, the DM asks me to ROLL perception. Instead, I state "IF there is anyone in the room the better leave because I am lighting the room on fire:
The DM state no one comes out. I tell him I leave..
He says "Your not going to light the room on fire"...
I reply "No, if there were any people in there , they would have come out"

Try to ROLE play your way through the game, some of the best games I have been in (or ran) had very few die rolls and were very enjoyable.

I have a an amazing Dice collection and love to show them off, so if that your thing, have fun, but try not to rely on the dice. Eventually, all dice dice betray you
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Pick a few traits for your character
Decide on 2 things your character likes to do, add one obsession. These three things will make you role play.

sharpening a sword
mending cloth

Just a couple of things that you can do when there is no action or when you feel the need to distract the GM with something completely different 



Character Background
Cool, you spent 4 hours writing your background and details about what he/she did in their life... yeah, whatever. Unless the GM is going to work in such a background, you just wasted your time.

Spent 4 hours on my character's back story, then character dies in the second session, unable to jump back into the game because I had no back story.

There are good backgrounds "You grew up in the town all your life and felt you needed to see the world beyond the town" 

Keep them short, just a couple of sentences, you are not the long lost Heir to the Land of Ehdan waiting to claim your Kingdom

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Player spent 4 hours doing a background, talked to the GM and went over how to incorporate the background into the story - GM rolls damage and determines that that would kill the character, then decides to forgo the damage because the story line would be impacted and he does not want to alter the campaign. 

This is an example of a Bad GM / Player interaction. The GM is now in the position to not kill a character and this reduces the risk / reward of playing. Players should anticipate that the characters can die... hence the fantastically popular background 
"My PC is sitting in the Tavern"
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Know yourself
If you have a tendency to make the game about you, play a different character.


Step up when you have to, but let others play
Unless you are the leader, then try to make others play.  Don't be an attention hog, a good leader draws the roll playing out of other players. 

If there are 4 people in the group, you should not be doing 2/3 of the talking. 



Listen to the GM
I give out subtle clues and sometimes emphasize key words. By being attentive, you will may gain additional information.

Take Notes
I give out a lot of information and revisit information during the course of several sessions, I will give you names and they will pop up from time to time and it is not my job to remind you who they are. Also, If I give you an item, you need to make notes and add the it to your inventory. Again, I do not revisit items, nor do I note them most times. 

Write Notes or Verbally Question the GM
Do not be afraid to drop a note or speak to the GM in private about matters that do not concern other Characters. If you have a question and the whole group is there, ASK !


Do something heroic every 30-45 Minutes
Seize the moment in the game to do something unexpected. 



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BONUS TIPS
The Following is from the TOON RPG... 
It is the Most Difficult RPG to play. 
People laugh when I tell them that, but it is the truth. 

This shows that with a little preparation (H), you can have a great session

The skills needed to play TOON are being able to think fast, act immediately and thwart other players. 

By reading these commandments (Straight from the TOON book), you will begin to see why it is so difficult 

I have known many players that thought they could play TOON, if you think too much or are a strategist, you cannot play TOON

It is rapid, fast paced MAYHEM. So, how do you play:

I have 4 things my Character (Bartholemew B Bunny) can do, and can use them at any time in the game

  1. Use Exploding Dice
  2. Pull a copier out of his bag of many things and Multiply
  3. Shoot another player
  4. Fast Talk another player


Beginning of each game, I make notes about what to do to other players (like using the Sea Urchin in a Salad, using a food processor to chop it up) 

With my 4 reoccurring actions and my notes, I am ready to play 


The Toon Commandments
1.       FORGET EVERYTHING YOU KNOW ABOUT ROLEPLAYING.
2.       ACT BEFORE YOU THINK.
3.       KNOW THE RULES - CHECKING RULES IS SLOW. SLOW IS BAD.
4.       KNOW YOUR CHARACTER AS YOURSELF.
5.       IF YOU WANT TO DO IT, EXAGGERATE IT.
6.       IF IT'S SIMPLE, COMPLICATE IT.
7.       IF YOU'RE IN A JAM, DO WHATEVER YOU CAN TO MAKE IT WORSE,
8.       WHEN IN DOUBT, RECAP.
9.       WHEN YOU CAN'T RECAP. MAKE SOMETHING UP.
10.   WHEN YOU CAN'T MAKE SOMETHING UP, CHEAT.






In prepping for this, I read and watched a lot of BULLSHIT on the internet and discarded 95% of these morons advice. I do not write my blog for any specific audience and you like my blog writings, let me know

PSS - I don't want to watch someone's face for an entire 5-10 minute video...


I write from 40 years of experience and Convention gaming. I provide practical advice that I have employed and taught. 




Anyone can play at the same table and get along, just leave all the other crap at the door.  Will you feel uncomfortable, YES, but it will pass. You will face comments and situations, by just not taking it personally, it will pass... 



Sorry but there is no way I am taking this Kid seriously when he starts saying "When I started playing..."

I am not saying I am not full of Bullshit, I am full of practical Bullshit